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Queer As Folk

Visi(bi)lity: Queer As Folk Broke My Heart

Sex and Sexuality post by Carrie Nelson on April 11, 2012 - 10:02am; tagged biphobia, bisexual, bisexual visibility, bisexuality, Queer As Folk, Showtime, television, Visi(bi)lity.

(Note: This post contains spoilers about Queer As Folk.)


Extreme close-up of a woman with chin-length blonde hair. The shot is over the shoulder of a man with dark brown hair and stubble, but since we only see him from behind, that’s all we can tell.It was the Spring of 2003. My three best friends and I were taking a break from studying for our math final exam and wandering around our local video store, searching for a DVD to watch at my house that night. Midway through the New Releases aisle, we paused. There it was: Season Two of the American Queer As Folk. None of us had ever watched it, but we knew it by reputation from friends who were fans. As active members of our school’s Gay-Straight Alliance and avid consumers of queer media, we knew that Queer As Folk was the most overtly gay television show out there, and we couldn’t wait to give it a try. We rented the first disc, and all plans of further studying that night were put on hold. Never mind, of course, that we’d never watched Season One—we’d catch up to it later. All we knew was that we had to start watching it immediately.

Nearly a decade later, Queer As Folk has remained one of my all-time favorite television shows; other than Seinfeld, it is the only show of which I’ve seen every episode more than once. It’s flawed in its depictions of diversity, and it’s sometimes a bit too goofy for its own good, but the storylines are compelling, the characters are well-developed, and the issues addressed—covering everything from bullying to parenting to addiction to serodiscordant relationships—are handled sensitively and realistically. All of them, that is, except for sexual fluidity.

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