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Preacher's Daughter: St. Vincent's "Cruel" Take on Labor

Music post by Kristin Rawls on September 8, 2011 - 11:28am; tagged domestic abuse, family, female songwriters, independent music, motherhood, religion.

Over the weekend, St. Vincent's upcoming album, Strange Mercy, started streaming on NPR. The woman behind the band, multi-instrumentalist singer-songwriter Annie Clark, started out as a member of the Polyphonic Spree and Sufjan Stevens' tour mate. She is known for juxtaposing sweet, Feist-like vocals with dark, often violent imagery. The disconnect between body and soul (that is, between the material and spiritual) is a central theme of her third album. The newest single, Cruel," examines this disconnect in the context of the trivial cruelties of day to day family life. 

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We're All Mad Here: Inception & Dom Cobb's Crazy Lying Dead Wife

Movies post by Anna_Palindrome on August 12, 2011 - 9:08am; tagged 2010 films, domestic abuse, domestic violence, Inception, mental illness, we're all mad here.
This post includes spoilers for Inception. It also discusses domestic violence.

There are multiple interpretations of Inception, but for the basis of this discussion I'm going to take the movie at face value. The central story is about Dominic Cobb needing to come to terms with the tragic circumstances of his wife's suicide. Once he is able to let go of his guilt and grief, he escapes limbo and comes back to his children. It's a nice little metaphor about mourning.

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She Pop: Do We Need An "Angrier" Rihanna?

Music post by SadyDoyle on October 16, 2009 - 6:40pm; tagged anger, celebrity trauma, domestic abuse, post-traumatic stress, rihanna.

Rihanna's new album is coming out soon. And with the new album - about which we know pretty much nothing, aside from a few vague quotes - comes the speculation about whether she'll address The Incident - her public assault by, and break-up with, Chris Brown. Specifically: is she going to be angry?

An article at CNN.com (via ONTD) says: maybe! Ne-Yo, who worked with her on the album, has said that we can "expect an edgier, almost angrier Rihanna on this one." And it is, as CNN reminds us, The First Album Since The Incident. But Tracey Johnson, of NeonLimelight.com, says "[Some fans] feel like it would be good for her to represent abused women in some sort of way and say something, but in my perspective, she doesn't owe us anything."

I don't know much about her website, but I'm with Tracey on this one. She doesn't owe us much. Particularly not one specific emotion. After what she's survived, asking her to present us with one simple "appropriate" or fan-requested emotion is just unfair.

 

Rihanna is covered in spikes.

 


So... angrier than this, then?
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She Pop-Behold the Face of Abuse, and Its Ridiculous Sweater: How Chris Brown Coverage Is Bad For Understanding Abuse

Social Commentary post by SadyDoyle on September 9, 2009 - 11:50am; tagged Chris Brown, domestic abuse, rihanna, Tila Tequila.

Say! HERE'S something I can't not talk about: Chris Brown, domestic abuser, bow tie enthusiast, Oprah nemesis, and soon-to-be dancing fiend, now on approximately Week One Million of his I'm Not Really That Bad And Also Please Forgive Me For That Unspecified Thing I Did (Did I Mention I'm Not That Bad?) Tour.

Chris Brown and his special apology sweater

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