"I want to shoot Iggy*," Ivan often tells me. He and his friends want to shoot Iggy, he says, because "we don’t like princesses." Iggy is a boy in my son’s preschool class who wears dresses to school – often bringing several, as he may want a new look by midday -- and likes to play princess with the girls.
Why does my son have violent fantasies about this kid? It’s disturbing, to say the least.