Welcome to the latest installment of Ms. Opinionated, in which readers have questions about the pesky day-to-day choices we all face, and I give advice about how to make ones that (hopefully) best reflect our shared commitment to feminist values—as well as advice on what to do when they don't.

Dear Ms Opinionated,

I feel that sex is only valuable to me when I'm sharing it with someone I love and trust completely and I can't enjoy it when I don't feel that my heart is safe. It's something I only share with the person I'm with, and it distinguishes the difference between friendship and love for me. My boyfriend, however, has been with tons of women, and a couple of them were and are his best friends. 

Happy Monday—let's hope this week is better than the last. The news on everyone's mind right now is, of course, the Boston bombing. Here are the best articles I read this weekend on the suspect's arrest: 

• The Boston bombers were Muslim—so what? [Atlantic] 

• The FBI questioned the suspect without reading him his Miranda Rights. How is that legal? [The Verge] 

• Many people were injured at the bombing, but only one victim had his house raided by police while he lay in the hospital. Why was he singled out? It seems like just because he's a Saudi immigrant. [New Yorker] 

In other news... 

• Here's a rundown of why it's condescending to tell a childless woman that she'd be such a great mother. Apparently some people need that explained! [The Atlantic] 

• Lots of people are heading to the streets in India to once again protest the country's treatment of women and lack of prosecuting rape. [Guardian] 

• Two new abortion-restrictions are in the news: One new law closed an abortion-providing clinic in Virginia and Kansas's governor signed a giant pile of new restrictions. [Feministing, RH Reality Check] 

• Every year, one quarter of black students in public schools are suspended. One quarter. Wow. [The Nation] 

• How will it impact basketball Skylar Diggins' game that people online are always telling her she's too good looking to be an athlete? [Colorlines] 

• Speaking of sports, Portland's women's soccer team the Thorns played their first game this weekend. Their merchandise is covered in the slogan, "Feeling thorny?" [Oregonian] 

• Does Game of Thrones throw in way too much female nudity? [Bitch Flicks] 

What did I miss? Add what you're reading to the comments. 

Country music can be a hard place for women. Lyrics have women being drowned in rivers, abandoned as whores, or obsessed over as angels-in-the-flesh. From the beginning of the Nashville scene, husbands, managers, and music labels kept a tight grip on female performers' money and artistic freedom. In response to the systemic misogyny of popular country music, we give you this playlist that celebrates "putting the cunt back in country." 

Feminist Country Playlist from BitchTapes on 8tracks Radio.